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Elizabeth Grace Martinez's avatar

I agree with all of these! I have re-read many books over my life and always have different perspectives- especially on Catcher in the Rye. I read Pride and Prejudice every year and always have a different take on it, I'm looking forward to reading it again this year especially because of a meme I just saw about it.

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Teri Leigh 💜's avatar

"You don't have to answer the phone if you don't want to."

I was raised by a father who, when he got mad at something we kids did, would say "you answer a question when it is asked of you!" and then I became a teacher, where I believed that every kid's question was an expression of curiosity that I wanted to fulfill.

So answering the phone...it's a call of curiosity.

and it took me decades to understand that I could choose WHEN to answer the call of curiosity.

*my father is one to always answer the phone. I once called him recently, and he was up a tree harvesting his grapefruits. The man is 80 years old, and he still climbs trees and answers the phone while he's up there. what did I say to him when he told me what he was doing? "Dad, you don't have to answer the phone every time it rings. you can always call me back at a more convenient time for you."

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